Ask a (S)expert: Our Top 20+ Role-Play Ideas
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“New ideas for role-playing?”
Hey bae! I love that you’re tapping into role-play. Role-play allows you to master the art of (s)exploration while helping you release your inhibitions. It’s also a great method for couples to enhance intimacy. Although you didn’t ask, I have to share my role play rule of thumb:
“Role-play is all about becoming a new character — while keeping your ideal pleasure in mind.”
If you’d like to know where to cop costumes, any Halloween or cosplay store is your bestie.
Here are a few kinky recommendations:
Best Role-play Ideas:
Artist and their muse enjoy a “live nude painting session.”
Stylist and their client dabble in retail therapy — paired with ripping your clothes off, of course.
Massage therapist gives a lesson in sexual wellness.
Varsity cheerleader turns out the football player.
Schoolgirl risks it all for an A+.
Strangers lock eyes at a hotel bar.
Wax lady gets creative — with the consent of their client, of course.
Sexy maid misses a spot.
The detective gives the suspect a lesson in domination.
Doctor and patient get kinky.
Disgruntled customer gets a real lesson in customer service.
Boss and employee.
Plumber unintentionally piques your interest…
Pornstars f-ck after-hours, after falling in love on set.
The pool boy takes a much needed break — with you.
The control freak receives a lesson in relaxation.
The voyeur witnesses their first threesome.
TSA pats you down.
Flight attendant at your service.
Joining the mile high club.
“I’ve never done this before.”
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