How to Keep Your F-ck Buddy a F-ck Buddy

Sexologist Shan Boodram shares her play-by-play.

How to Keep Your F-ck Buddy a F-ck Buddy

Sexologist Shan Boodram shares her play-by-play.

Last week on the Girls Gotta Eat podcast, the show’s comedic hosts brought sex and dating expert Shan Boodram onboard for tips on keeping your f-ck buddy a f-ck buddy. Although Boodram did end up getting married to her f-ck buddy, she shares f-ck buddy tips that come second to none.

Everyone knows that having a friend with benefits is ideally a perfect situation. But it very rarely plays out smoothly. With friendship comes caring and if you’re trying to keep things strictly sexual, feelings may pose an issue.

Boodram’s best tip for keeping your f-ck buddy a f-ck buddy, is no sleepovers — ever. Also, make sure you have a separate cuddle buddy. After sex, happy love hormones like oxytocin are released. However, when you cuddle after sex, this hormonal response confuses you into catching feelings. Ensuring you have another source for affection — not sex, takes the pressure off of your f-ck buddy relationship.

Also, Boodram suggests having a separate ringtone for f-ck buddies to avoid the “is he texting me back” game her mind would always succumb to.

Click the Instagram post below and read the comments for more tips from Boodram’s online community.