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Ask a (S)expert: "Best Foreplay Tips?"

Welcome to our series led by Gigi Fong, Hypebae’s in-house sex and dating editor.

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Ask a (S)expert: "Best Foreplay Tips?"

Welcome to our series led by Gigi Fong, Hypebae’s in-house sex and dating editor.

Welcome to your new safe space and Hypebae’s first-ever sex and dating column, Ask a (S)expertThis new weekly series is led by Haitian-Chinese and LA-based sexpert Gigi Fong, our in-house sex and dating editor.

Gigi is a former sex worker and podcaster now hosting safe spaces for the Hypebae community. She specializes in all things sex-positive from unconventional dating to pleasureTo have your questions answered, visit our dropbox below and anonymously send your intimate inquiries ♡


“What’s your best foreplay tip?”

Hey bae! Foreplay is the perfect way to get your body ready for sex. For people with vaginas, this can look like exploring touch and the art of fingering before full-on penetration. For people with penises, it can be the process of becoming erect. However, foreplay is subjective as different people enjoy different styles of pleasure — aka “sex” looks different person-to-person. For example, some straight people view fingering as foreplay, while some queer people consider it sex.

Where a lot of people misunderstand foreplay is that they assume it only comes in the form of sexual pleasure. In all reality — and yes we’re about to quote Paloma Faith — “foreplay is more about what you talk about the whole day, how you treat each other all day. It’s not just spit on your fingers and rub.” Of course, if your dynamic is strictly sexual there are other ways to spice things up. For example, giving a sensual massage.

Need more ideas? Keep reading for our top foreplay tips.

 

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2. Make out

3. Take a shower together

4. Sext

5. Listen to audio porn together

6. Role play

7. Tease each other with sex toys

8. Play a steamy card game

Best of luck, bae!

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