Sex & Dating

Straight Men Are Finally Admitting They Want to Date Each Other

“You can date any woman you want to. You can have as many girls as you want to… I don’t care.”

215.6K

Straight Men Are Finally Admitting They Want to Date Each Other

“You can date any woman you want to. You can have as many girls as you want to… I don’t care.”

For the past few weeks, users on Twitter and TikTok have been questioning a pattern they’ve noticed among straight men. And a new TikTok video might have proven its validity — but with a caveat.

Male friendships and the treatment of women. The gist of it? Cis men treat their friends better than they treat women and should just admit that they just don’t like women. They’ve simply been told by society that getting married to a wife is what you do, so they do. But in reality, they really view her as a housemaid and domestic counterpart — and it gets messier.

@barrettpall L00KIN 4 A HUSBAND #fy #fyp #men #women #singlemom #datingadvice #greenscreenvideo ♬ original sound – Big Bro Bear

Earlier this week, Youtuber and TikTok creator, Barrett Pall, stitched a video from an older man revealing he wants to marry a fellow, straight man. ”I’m looking for a straight man, that would like to get married to another straight man,” said the user in the original video.

“You can date any woman you want to. You can have as many girls as you want to… I don’t care. I’ll never b-tch about it. I just want a joint, two-income household,” with two master bedrooms, and all. He continues to share that they can hire a maid, for the household duties — since they’ll have two incomes.

This literally — word for word, bar for bar — proved Barrett Pall and a majority of the social media world, correct. The only stipulations the original user points out with not having a woman involved, is all household duties in the form of “making a house a home.” He’s quite literally seeking a roommate, that offers a tax break and household duties handled — without the stress of caring for a partner.

Platonic relationships taking precedence have been on the rise since the discovery of “singles tribes,” we reported on this past summer. Simultaneously, sex and dating experts have been predicting the rise of single, lonely older men due to a lack of emotional intelligence that heterosexual women are no longer putting up with.

It makes us wonder, could platonic marriage and community be the new trend for older men? Or is this just a problematic ploy to avoid being good partners and the loneliness that ensues when no one wants to put up with your sh-t?

Read Full Article
Text By
and
Share this article

What to Read Next

Are We in a "Dating Recession?" or Are We Just Poor?
Sex & Dating

Are We in a "Dating Recession?" or Are We Just Poor?

Welp, there goes my plan to marry well.

How to Ask for Consent — But Make It Sexy
Sex & Dating

How to Ask for Consent — But Make It Sexy

From spicy games to prompts, ethical porn director, Angie Rowntree, shares her best tips.

Are You Doomscrolling Again?
Culture

Are You Doomscrolling Again?

Here’s how to cut back on your toxic habit and boost your mental health.


This Sexologist-Approved Sex Toy Is the One
Sex & Dating

This Sexologist-Approved Sex Toy Is the One

Bloomi’s founder Rebecca Alvarez shows us how to use a double-sided vibrator — and it’s worth the hype.

Apparently, Monday Is the Horniest Day of the Week on Hinge
Sex & Dating

Apparently, Monday Is the Horniest Day of the Week on Hinge

Tune in for a not-so-scientific experiment that might get you laid.

The New Balance 550 Gets a "Pink Sand" Colorway
Footwear

The New Balance 550 Gets a "Pink Sand" Colorway

Coming soon in a women’s size run.

The Nike Air Force 1 React Returns in "Pink Spell"
Fashion Footwear

The Nike Air Force 1 React Returns in "Pink Spell"

A comfier take on the AF1 with a transparent sole.

A Closer Look at Palace's Debut Womenswear Collection With Gucci
Fashion

A Closer Look at Palace's Debut Womenswear Collection With Gucci

The collaboration marks the first time that Palace has offered a fully-fledged womenswear range.

Marques'Almeida Resort SS23 Takes Cues From the Memphis Design Movement
Fashion

Marques'Almeida Resort SS23 Takes Cues From the Memphis Design Movement

Fusing womenswear and kidswear silhouettes for the first time.

Triangl Swim Launches 'Paradiso' Collection
Fashion

Triangl Swim Launches 'Paradiso' Collection

Introducing the new crochet fabric and Vera print.

Canada Goose's Collaboration With Feng Chen Wang and Xu Zhen Is Here
Fashion

Canada Goose's Collaboration With Feng Chen Wang and Xu Zhen Is Here

A 12-piece capsule featuring footwear, outerwear and more.

BTS to Complete Mandatory Military Service in South Korea
Music

BTS to Complete Mandatory Military Service in South Korea

The group is set to make a comeback around 2025, following the completion of the service.

LE SSERAFIM Releases Second Album, 'ANTIFRAGILE'
Music

LE SSERAFIM Releases Second Album, 'ANTIFRAGILE'

Following the pre-release of the lead track of the same title.

Megan Thee Stallion's Home Reportedly Robbed of More Than $300K USD in Goods
Entertainment

Megan Thee Stallion's Home Reportedly Robbed of More Than $300K USD in Goods

The rapper shared she will be taking a hiatus to focus on her mental and physical health.

More ▾
 

Looks like you’re using an ad-blocker

We charge advertisers instead of our readers. Support us by whitelisting our site.

Whitelist Us

How to Whitelist Us

screenshot
  1. Click the AdBlock icon in the browser extension area in the upper right-hand corner.
  2. Under “Pause on this site” click “Always”.
  3. Refresh the page or click the button below to continue.
screenshot
  1. Click the AdBlock Plus icon in the browser extension area in the upper right-hand corner.
  2. Block ads on – This website” switch off the toggle to turn it from blue to gray.
  3. Refresh the page or click the button below to continue.
screenshot
  1. Click the AdBlocker Ultimate icon in the browser extension area in the upper right-hand corner.
  2. Switch off the toggle to turn it from “Enabled on this site” to “Disabled on this site”.
  3. Refresh the page or click the button below to continue.
screenshot
  1. Click the Ghostery icon in the browser extension area in the upper right-hand corner.
  2. Click on the “Ad-Blocking” button at the bottom. It will turn gray and the text above will go from “ON” to “OFF”.
  3. Refresh the page or click the button below to continue.
screenshot
  1. Click the UBlock Origin icon in the browser extension area in the upper right-hand corner.
  2. Click on the large blue power icon at the top.
  3. When it turns gray, click the refresh icon that has appeared next to it or click the button below to continue.
screenshot
  1. Click the icon of the ad-blocker extension installed on your browser.You’ll usually find this icon in the upper right-hand corner of your screen. You may have more than one ad-blocker installed.
  2. Follow the instructions for disabling the ad blocker on the site you’re viewing.You may have to select a menu option or click a button.
  3. Refresh the page or click the button below to continue.