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Ask a (S)expert: "How Do I Elevate My Orgasms?"

Welcome to our series led by Gigi Fong, Hypebae’s in-house sex and dating editor.

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Welcome to your new safe space and Hypebae’s first-ever sex and dating column, Ask a (S)expertThis new weekly series is led by Haitian-Chinese and LA-based sexpert Gigi Fong, our in-house sex and dating editor.

Gigi is a former sex worker and podcaster now hosting safe spaces for the Hypebae community. She specializes in all things sex-positive from unconventional dating to pleasureTo have your questions answered, visit our dropbox below and anonymously send your intimate inquiries ♡


“How do I get a better orgasm?”

Hey bae! As my fav Dr. Sara Tang shared, “Sex is a skill that gets better with practice.” Practice makes for very intense orgasms and an even more confident woman.

1. Try edging

Edging is the practice of avoiding orgasms. I know, seems counteractive, right? Well, it actually builds anticipation resulting in deeper pleasure. Try this. Next time you our your partner are rubbing your cl-toris, have them stop right before you orgasm. After two or three times, you’re allowed to c-m. (Have fun!)

2. Sex positions

Exploring sex positions will help you know how your body likes to orgasm and which positions are easiest or provide fuller orgasms. a fuller orgasm can be felt throughout your entire body, are longer, present tingly feelings and depending on just how great it is, let out a few screams.

3. (No surprise here) Try sex toys

Try adding a clitoral sucker to your cl-toris during penetration. This is called a blended orgasm.

4. Explore blended orgasms

Speaking of those, pleasuring more than one area is a sure fire way to achieve a great orgasm. Double up on clitoral pleasure and penetration, vaginally or via anal. If you like nipple stimulation, you can play with your nipples during clitoral pleasure or anal.

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