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Ask a (S)expert: “How Do I Find My G-Spot?”

Welcome to our new series led by Gigi Fong, Hypebae’s in-house sex and dating editor.

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Ask a (S)expert: “How Do I Find My G-Spot?”

Welcome to our new series led by Gigi Fong, Hypebae’s in-house sex and dating editor.

Welcome to your new safe space and Hypebae’s first-ever sex and dating column, Ask a (S)expertThis new weekly series is led by Haitian-Chinese and LA-based sexpert Gigi Fong, our in-house sex and dating editor.

Gigi is a former sex worker, boudoir artist and podcaster now hosting safe spaces for the Hypebae community. She specializes in all things sex-positive from unconventional dating to pleasure for lovers of all identities. To have your questions answered, visit our dropbox below and anonymously send your intimate inquiries ♡


“How do I know if my G-Spot has been found? Is there a sensation I should feel once it’s been reached?”

Hey bae! Great question — this is a loaded one. On the research front, the existence of the G-Spot has become a controversial one as the original researcher who coined the term, Dr. Beverly Whipple, resurfaced in February and told us we got it all wrong: the G-Spot does exist but it’s not necessarily a “spot.”

According to her, it’s more of a pleasure center. As a result, experts are moving away from “G-Spot” tips and want to remind vagina owners that there are a number of styles of pleasure to explore, that way, when femmes like yourself can’t find the G-Spot, they don’t feel doomed.

But, respectfully, we know what you’re here for so here’s the tea.

How to locate the G-Spot:

G-Spot Sex Position: Missionary

To get started, stimulate your senses and tap what typically gets you in the mood. It can be clitoral stimulation with your favorite sex toy, or massaging erogenous zones like your nipples. When you’re aroused, tap the art of fingering. Play with your clitoris, massage it in circular motions and slowly enter your vaginal canal. Make sure you’re doing so with your palm facing upwards. The key here is as you finger yourself and reach the back of you vaginal canal, make a “come hither” motion. Like in the image below.

G-Spot Sex Position: Cowgirl

Another method for reaching your G-Spot is doggy style. Like Megan thee Stallion said, “If I’m on top, I’m gunna nut,” and that’s on what? Being in control. As you straddle your partner, you can get creative and straddle back and forth. This will stimulate your G-Spot. Some penis owners do not feel much with this style of pleasure, so if you’d like to kill two birds with one stone, vary between straddling back and forth and bouncing up and down to arouse both of you.

What does a G-Spot orgasm feel like?

G-Spot orgasms are very intense, and feel like a full-body experience. As you penetrate yourself and find your spot, you’ll begin to feel more lubricated and euphoric, almost as if you’re about to burst out of your body — that’s a G-Spot orgasm.

Enjoy, bae!

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